"Just get up there and DO IT!"           

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         It is indeed the number one fear of American adults:  speaking before an audience of peers.  Incidentally, I seem to remember  it's number two for teens, right after parental divorce.  Well anyway, there's no need to be afraid of speaking before peers - or, for that matter, superiors, students, friends, infants, pets, or a mirror.  I recommend those last three for practice, by the way.  So let's get to it - some performance tips for your speech...

 

  • Know Your Place - Perhaps the most important thing to remember is that you belong in front of an audience giving a speech.  That is, unless you're doing a walk-on.  But seriously, the audience expects you to give a speech - they're not going to question why you're up there shooting your mouth off!  This is meant to make you comfortable with public speaking, but to be completely honest, the best way to get comfy with speaking is practice.  If you ever get a chance to do small & easy bits of public speaking - announcements, church readings, etc - take it.  It'll help. 

 

  • Rehearse - Run the speech past some people you trust (family, friends, whoever's having you do the speech, etc.) just to get a feeling for their reactions.  You'll be more sure of yourself when you find out they don't hate the speech; it always works for me!  That, and you get the bonus of a little feedback - you discover some parts that don't work (no speech is perfect) and fix'em in time for the real audience.  You'll find out if those "applause points" (see Devices) work out the way you planned.  Of course, if you don't want to go straight to sentient beings for practice, try it with pets or babies - these are better than sofas or walls because you can also practice eye contact...